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Hey guys! I hope you are all doing okay :)

Just letting you know that I'm going to be doing a massive friend cut later today. I lost a few "friends" in the past 2-3 weeks, and it made me realized that I don't know all of you, and there you are, able to read my journal about super personal things. I guess all I'm saying is. I don't feel comfortable sharing some stuff.

I don't want to hurt anyone's feeling. So please don't be hurt. I already feel bad for removing people. I hate doing friends' cut, but sometimes they are necessary...

Date: 2014-01-23 03:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
eh, it happens. It is your journal and you need to feel comfortable writing in it. or that would sort of the defeat the purpose :)

Date: 2014-01-23 03:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I'm with [ profile] nessainwe -- you should definitely feel safe about the people who are able to read your posts and there shouldn't be worries about limiting what you share.

Friends cuts are never fun, but it is nice that you gave us a heads up. It's sort of sad and confusing to just see that someone removed you completely out of the blue.

Date: 2014-01-23 03:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Thank you.

I always announce it when I do a cut. I hate being remove and not knowing why myself. It happened a few times the past 2 weeks and it's been really.. well kinda depressing. But it's life :)

Date: 2014-01-23 05:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
You have to feel safe in your own journal. I won't at all be offended if you decide to cut me, I would totally understand. <3

Date: 2014-01-23 06:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I hope you're doing okay <3

Date: 2014-01-23 06:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
dude it's your journal you shouldn't have anyone who you don't feel comfortable with! otherwise you might not wanna update about stuff and then the journal kinda loses its point x

Date: 2014-01-23 08:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Understood. The other approach would be to create a "top secret" filter and place only those friends on it that you want to read those deeply personal posts. I hope all is well.

Date: 2014-01-23 08:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
do what you gotta do, sweetie.

(as long as you don't cut me, lol! j/k)

Date: 2014-01-23 08:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Don't worry.

I wrote you a letter yesterday (finally). Sending it soon!

Date: 2014-01-23 08:50 pm (UTC)

Date: 2014-01-23 09:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I hope you don't cut me, as I consider you a good friend. However, if the feeling isn't mutual, please feel free to cut. I won't guilt trip you or start anything! <3

Date: 2014-01-24 12:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
The cut has been made ;)

Date: 2014-01-23 09:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
What's most important is that you feel comfortable and safe in your own journal, bb. *hugs you tight* ♥

Date: 2014-01-23 10:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
You always always need to feel comfortable in your own LJ-space. Do whatever you need to do. I wish you all the best in any case :)

Date: 2014-01-23 11:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
You have to do what you need to do. ♥

Date: 2014-01-24 12:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
<3 gotta do what you gotta do for you, bb

Date: 2014-01-24 01:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
:( I hope I can stay... I know I haven't been the best of friends around, but I've been so busy with school!

Date: 2014-01-24 12:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
The cut has been made...
Of course you stayed :D

Date: 2014-01-24 03:35 am (UTC)

Date: 2014-01-24 03:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
It's all right. I totally understand. ♥

Date: 2014-01-24 12:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]


good to hear from you :)

Yes, sometimes friends cuts are absolutely necessary

Date: 2014-01-24 12:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]

I agree, but they are also shitty!

Date: 2014-01-31 11:34 am (UTC)

Date: 2014-01-24 11:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Sometimes friend cuts are necessary. Glad to hear you're doing okay, though!

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